You know ever since I was a child, I always knew I had a twin-flame or a soul mate somewhere. My late grandma Lily always told me that your soul mate would be the one who would fill and complement what you lack in your persona. She explained the theory of Yin-Yang to me, where the soul mates form the Yin and the Yang individually, and then become one when destiny makes them meet.
How does this happen
It is believed that twin-souls or soul mates, no matter where they are, would have personal traits which would be the same, experiences and situations or even behaviors and thoughts or actions too would be alike. They both would have faced same experiences in their individual lives, and when you meet him and talk to him for the first time, you would notice more of your own experiences and traits in him. This is how your relationship begins and works. Both the souls would have some variations because of being separated on the physical plane for some time, but when they meet, the two become one. In fact, it is said that the two of them help get each other’s “karma cleared”, and in some cases (sadly) the two of them aren’t even in sync with one another.
So is it all rosy living with a soul mate or twin-flame
It is just as any other relationship; damn the media for making things look so nice. You would find faults with each other’s personalities and habits. It is actually the bonding that was created in a past life which brings the two of you together this time. There is like an instant connection that happens and you don’t have to see the fairies or hear the bells ring. Compassion for him would be the highest at all times, even when they are down the rut. Viewpoints of the other expand with the help of one in the relationship.
Travelling with them
You would enjoy travelling with your soul mate to various hideouts and places. One would have the talent to be creative and the other the talent to be innovative. Both of you would have fun, and yes sex while travelling would be awesome. The experiences of life would be fully rewarding, especially when your soul mate is with you.
Ask yourself these questions
- Do I have any character flaws
- Am I too tough to live with
- Am I willing to share my life completely with my soul mate
- Am I willing to extend and expand with this soul mate
Why ask all these questions?
- Common notion in a relationship for people is that it needs only love and sex. Wrong! You need to have that spark lit even years after being with him. You should be able to say from your soul, “I love him and he is the one I want to be with.”
- The reason why you become a difficult person to live with is because your soul mate would share traits that make you do things that way. And when realization dawns, the two of you would realize the issues all the more. One of you may tend to keep doing things exactly the opposite of what the other wants. But in the end what matters is the result, and this should pertain to what you both want.
Not all soul mates are meant to be lovers; some can be best friends too. So if you have found someone like that, just as I have, lucky us. Have fun with your soul mate and I wish you both love and happiness.
This post was written by Rohan Noronha and first appeared in www.desiboys.in.