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Mumbai witnesses Asia’s first gay flash mob


2012
01.24

Gay flash mob of mumbai at marine drive

As part of the pride week celebrations currently going on in Mumbai preceding the actual gay pride march in the city on 28th Jan, Mumbai today witnessed India’s first gay flash mob, which also happens to be Asia’s first gay flash mob. It was a pleasant surprise for many present at Marine Drive when a little after 6pm, more than 50 people started dancing to a medley of carefully selected Bollywood songs ‘Character Dheela’, ‘Sadda Haq’ and ‘Maa Da Ladla’.

Preparations for the first gay flash mob of Asia had been going around for a month with the participants practicing for it every weekend. Dev Kakkad, who is credited with choreographing Mumbai’s now famous flash mob at Chatrapati Shivaji Terminus railway station, also choreographed India’s first gay flash mob. However, publicity in the media about the flash mob beforehand meant that public at Marine Drive already had an inkling about it, thus taking away the surprise element of a flash mob. “It was an amazing experience to be a part of it,” an ecstatic Souvik Ghosh, who happened to be the only non-Mumbai person to be part of the mob, said. “It was a huge success except for the fact that the ambience of a flash mob was a little disappointing because people had already got a hint of it. But we could still pull it like a flash mob,” he added.

Gay flash mobs have emerged as a major source of protest in the west, where many political leaders who aired their homophobia were often confronted with flash mobs by LGBTs. Although flash mobs started in 2003 and have since been organized in various cities across the world, the phenomenon has only recently caught up with India when Mumbai yet again led other Indian cities and a successful flash mob was organized in the busy CST railway station. Given the comments by the Health Minister of India against homosexuality and the recent harassment of people attending the QAM (Queer Azadi March) pride fund-raiser party in Mumbai, the flash mob with its choice of songs made the perfect statement. With its grand success, all eyes would now be on the Queer Azadi March on 28th Jan.

Some Gay Wishes


2011
06.10

-Sukhdeep Singh

Archie Comics has finally decided to “keep up with time” by introducing a gay character Kevin Keller. Dunno Y…Na Jaane Kyun is also going to be released soon in India. Already dubbed the Brokeback Mountain of Bollywood, it is going to test hitherto uncharted waters. The directors and producers remain tense as to the reaction that the Indian audience would give, especially in the small cities. Irrespective of whether audiences give it a thumbs up or thumbs down, it will surely help bring the homosexuality debate out of the closet. Here is a list of other such things that we would like the Indian entertainment industry to churn out.

Ekkta’s Gay Serial- Before the reality shows and IPL took over control of the idiot box’s prime time, Ekkta Kapoor’s K serials ruled the charts. Be it Kahani Ghar Ghar Ki or Kyunki Saas… whole of India remained hooked to it. Then came Jassi Jassi Koi Nahi to topple the K’s and now Balika Vadhu. Apart from the K’s, all of Ekkta’s Serials (and those that knocked them out of 1st slot) had one thing in common. They were all women centric, where men were mere puppets in the hands of wives and mothers and in-laws! Even now, pick-up any serial (even if it is a comedy), and it will be a women centric one. It is time to have a male centric serial. And with the central character as a gay man, the serial will pack enough drama and emotions to sustain it for years. Not only will it be a welcome change from all those episodes of backbiting women always planning something evil, but with the whole nation hooked to a serial with its central character as gay, we can surely hope for changed perceptions among the masses. Now the million dollar question is, ‘Is Ekkta Kapoor ready to take the plunge?’

Adnan Sami’s Gay Music Video- With his Tera Chehra album, he shot a song with almost all the leading actresses of Bollywood. The man has a golden voice, and if he could romance these ladies from Bollywood, then why not break the barriers? He did make a video with Amitabh and Govinda, but that wasn’t quite on the lines we want. The man has already shed a lot of kilos and we would like to see the slim and toned Adnan romancing the likes of John, Shahid, Imran and Ranbir; with a beautiful romantic track in the background. Given the magic of his voice, people surely won’t mind the video much, as they would be mesmerized by the songs. After all, didn’t Katy Perry’s I kissed a girl ruled the charts and made her a star, despite the lesbian video.

Chacha Chaudhary- Archie is introducing a gay character finally; wouldn’t it be interesting to have a

gay character in our own Desi comic too? We surely don’t mean Pran and Diamond Comics to suddenly change the orientation of Chacha Chaudhary and bring a gay twist to his and Sabu’s relation. But it would be interesting to note how the man whose brain works faster than a computer responds upon encountering a gay character in his life (may be some grandson of his), especially since Chacha here would represent an older generation. Would this intelligent and wise man use his wisdom and wit to spread awareness among the people? We may never know the answer, unless of course Diamond Comics tries to keep up with time and comes out with such an edition.

Advertisements- We did have the gay friendly ads of Amul and Hindustan Times being aired after the 377 ruling, but this time we ask for more. How about a Wild Stone ad with the seduction being of a man instead, or something from Armani collection celebrating the diversity… After all, during Valentine’s Day they did come up with an advertisement with heterosexual, homosexual and bisexual love being showered in the same ad. Why not do something on similar grounds here?

An Out and Proud Celebrity- Enough of going by rumors and being fed on grapevine. After years of speculation,even Ricky Martin has come out. Another Olympic swimmer also decided to let it all out. We have Neil Patrick Harris, Adam Lambert, Elton John and the list continues. But still, for a country of 1 billion and with an entertainment industry that produces the maximum number of films in the whole world, there’s hardly any out and proud celebrity to turn up to. We have had Madhur Bhandarkar include gay characters in his movies about fashion industry, but bollywood is still to come out of closet. Enough of all the rumors. For once, let the question about privacy and personal choice take a backseat. We will love to tweet too, with our tweets reading: ‘I always knew it’ to ‘Glad he is finally out’. But for that, our stars need to gather some courage. At least draw some inspiration from Ricky Martin.

P.S. This article had appeared in the May 2010 issue of Gaylaxy. Almost a year later, finally Indian TV soap Maryada: Lekin Kab Tak? brings in a gay angle, where the lead character is shown to be a homosexual and has to deal with issues like coming out to family and leading a closet, married life.

“We didn’t want to make a movie like Dostana”


2011
06.08

A Broken Reality, a movie based on a true story and described as a thought provoking effort to make parents realise that though they have homosexual kids but still they are their own kids, is under production. Sukhdeep Singh talks to the lead actor Apoorv Jaiswal , who, along with Kshitij Mathur, is behind this whole project.

Tell us something about the movie.

The movie is based on a real life story. There was a very close friend of mine who actually tried to commit suicide because of all the social pressures, parental pressure, marriage issues and everything. This story in a way is dedicated to him. The story is about two guys, one is Aditya and the other is Manav. While Aditya is a jolly character, very full of life kind of guy and the only son of his parents, Manav is a reserved person whose parents have separated. The movie is about how these two people meet each other and fall in love, and what happens when Aditya’s mother finds out about their relationship.

How did Unique Horizons Entertainment happen?

I met Kshitij on Facebook first. We both were from Bhopal and we had the same dream of making it big in the film industry and we kind of clicked. We then formed the banner Unique Horizons Entertainment. We had five scripts to choose from for our debut, and we chose this one as little efforts have been made in India to portray homosexuality in a sensible way. We didn’t want to make a movie like Dostana where we are making fun of such people. The script-writer and director is Kshitij Mathur, while the story and concept is by me and Kshitij both. The role of Aditya is being played by me and Himanshu plays Manav. The role of a girl in love with Aditya is being played by Anshika. The mother’s character has yet not been finalized.

Has the production started?

Everything has been lined up. People have come up on their own for donations. We are looking for more donations. Previously, our film was a short movie of 20 minutes. But we felt 20 minutes is a short time to show each and everything that we want to portray. So we extended the length to 1 hour and we are striving hard that if we go for a 1 hour long movie, we have a theatrical release. We are going to send it for Film Festivals and are also in talks with some of the production houses. If everything goes fine, and depending on the response we get, we shall go for a theatrical release in India at least in the multiplexes. We are trying to keep a point in front of the society that these people also have a right to live, right to smile, right to live as per their own terms and wishes , because these are absolutely normal people.

What are you trying to portray through your movie?

We are breaking two myths. First myth which normally people have about homosexuals is that gay men are always feminine. Second myth which parents have about homosexuality is that it is abnormal and is a kind of communicable disease, that other people who are gay are turning my son into gay. We are trying to break such myths and that is why the name of the movie is A Broken Reality. The society is actually living in a broken reality and is not able to see the actual reality in the world. It has closed its eyes

When will the shooting begin then?

We have begun the rehearsals part because we want to do as less retakes as possible since we have a very tight budget. We are happy that people have come up on their own and donated money. Donations have ranged from Rs 100 to Rs 10000, without any expectation of any returns. We are going to include all the names in the producer list. Pratibha is assisting us in the editing and is also doing it for free. That is how we are cutting on the cost. We want to make a master piece, but we want to make a masterpiece with as much support from people and as less money as possible.

So you mean to say that it is a crowd sourced film like I AM?

Yes! Initially we were planning to produce it on our own- me and Kshitij. But then we realised that this kind of movie needs a big platform and more and more people and parents should watch the movie. Rather than LGBT people, we want straight people to watch it more, we need to open their eyes. Yes, the idea is similar to I AM and that is why we are proud of our movie, because people have accepted us with open arms.

What has been the biggest challenge that you have faced till now while making this movie?

The biggest challenge was that we were dealing with a very fragile topic and the emotions of a lot of LGBT people are involved. We did not want to make a movie like Kal Ho Na Ho or Dostana. It is a very serious film, a very romantic film in which people will connect with the characters of Aditya and Manav.

The actors are all working for free, they are doing it as a social cause and none of them even thought twice before saying yes. We have got positive comments, but we have also got negative comments. Many people have tried to discourage us too, saying that this is a topic you shouldn’t touch in a country like India. But we wanted to do it, and so we are doing it.

You said this is going to be a romantic movie, so will there be any intimate scenes?

We were thinking of putting some intimate shots as in some bed and kissing scenes, but we scrapped it, and right now there is only a passionate hug scene, which we are keeping because it is the demand of the script. We just want to portray that they are not doing it for fun, they are not doing it for pleasure but they are in a loving and committed relation. They both are complementing each other.

So when is shooting for the movie going to start?

Shooting will most probably begin by 3rd week of June.

By what time do you plan to finish the shoot?

We are already working day and night and plan to wrap up the shooting in three weeks and then editing will take another week. So, our film should be ready by July end. Then we will be sending it for film festivals all over the world. We are also looking forward to sending it to Kashish International Queer Film Festival next year.

Depending on the response we get in the Film Festivals, some of the production houses have come up on their own knowing about our efforts, that they will, in collaboration with Unique Horizons Entertainment, go in for a theatrical release.

How do you plan to take forward your own career?

We have our own production banner. After this movie I and Kshitij are going to work together more and more. Taking this topic for my first movie has been a challenge for me and I am getting to hone my acting skills as well. I am getting to have a feel of what is actually sensible and meaningful cinema. I always wanted to do meaningful cinema. I never wanted to be a part of commercial cinema. I don’t want to do a movie like Ready. I want to do movies like Abhay Deol. I like his movies a lot. I would also like to be an actor with a different recognition of his genre only, where people will say someday that whatever he does is something different and good. We are definitely planning to come up with more and more scripts under the banner of Unique Horizons and we look forward to make more such movies on social issues.

Chennai Rainbow Pride 2011


2011
06.06

If June brings the sweltering heat, it also brings reasons to cheer and celebrate. It could be the joy of savouring Mangoes for some, the happiness of all play and no studies for students, or, the ability to stand up for one’s own self and show to the society that we exist, and there is nothing wrong with us. Yes, June brings with it the Pride Parades across the world and in various cities of India too.

Well into its third year, the Chennai Pride will be held on 26th June to mark the anniversary of Stonewall Riots. The pride parade will be preceded by a month of activities to celebrate the diversity and highlight the various issues faced by LGBT community. “In Chennai we treat June as the Pride Month and we have a series of weekend activities and one of the last activity is the pride parade, which is the 26th June,” said Ramki L Ramakrishnan, one of the organizers of the Chennai Pride.

The activities kicked off from May itself, beginning with a small workshop on how to interact with the media during the parade so as to send a unified message, followed by a press conference and a poster making session on May 28th. Screening of a documentary of gay and lesbian Indians and their parents by Sonali Gulatie I AM was organized by the Chennai branch of Sangama on June 4.

A panel discussion with doctors, lawyers, psychologist etc and an interactive session with the audience has been planned for June 11th .The documentary Bold and the Beautiful by transgenders of Kalki Sahodari Foundation will also be screened the same day. There will be another poster making session the next day. The following weekend will then see a cultural performance by members of the community from Chennai and other parts of Tamil Nadu. A pre – pride party will be hosted on June 24th, while 25th June will have a parents meet – up, where parents of LGBTs can share their worries, and express their support and love for their child; which will be followed by an art exhibition and a play titled Molagaapodi by Kattiakari Theater Group. The month long activities would then culminate with the final pride march on June 26th.

With the decriminalization of homosexuality last year, the participation in this year’s pride march is expected to swell. Talking on this matter, Ramki said, “Typically, when you compare to Bangalore or Kolkata pride, we don’t have the kind of numbers that you have in these cities. But there are a lot of other people who won’t necessarily go to the march but come to the cultural event or come to the panel discussion,” hinting at the increasing sense of confidence among the members of the community.

You can view the event details by clicking here.

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Homosexuality and Sikhism


2011
05.26

-Zurich Collins

Sikh dharma is a philosophy which believes in equality and acceptance for all, and Guru Gobind Singh, the tenth Guru, declared that “the whole of mankind should be viewed as one”. Guru Granth Sahib (the holy book of Sikhs) does not mention homosexuality. However, the ten living Gurus were aware of homosexuality at the time the Guru Granth Sahib was compiled, as there were a number of openly gay saints during the 16th and 17th Centuries in the Indian Subcontinent. One such openly gay saint was Sarmad, a follower of Mian Mir, the Muslim Pir who is believed to have laid the foundation stone of Sri Harimandir Sahib (Golden Temple) – the most sacred Sikh gurdwara- in 1588.

Had the ten living Gurus believed homosexuality to be sinful, they would have addressed the subject within the Guru Granth Sahib, and the fact that it has been ignored suggests that the Gurus considered it to be inconsequential because the primary function of dharma is to unite the individual soul (which is genderless) with the supreme soul (which is also genderless). The Lavaan are also non-gender specific, and so same-sex marriage is possible within Sikh dharma. However, most gurdwaras (Sikh places of worship) in the current time would be reluctant to conduct a same-sex marriage because of an edict made by the Jathedar (Head Priest) of the Akal Takht in 2005 which banned gay marriages. It should be noted that Sikh religion as a philosophy does not support a priesthood system, and many such edicts such as eating on floors vs eating on tables have been ignored by the Sikh community as a whole.

Sikh dharma vs Indian culture

Although Sikh philosophy is liberal and all encompassing, Punjabi and Indian cultures are extremely conservative. This can lead to instances where some Sikhs hold conservative views which stem from Punjabi culture but which the individual may believe to be a part of Sikh philosophy. An area where this disparity is evident is that of sexuality, with Punjabi culture being very homophobic whilst Sikh philosophy teaches the idea of oneness, respect and tolerance of all people.

Gristhi Jeevan, or living the life of a householder, applies equally to same-sex relationships as it does to heterosexual relationships. There are no barriers to maintaining a family lifestyle within a same-sex relationship, for example, by adopting children. It is possible to be Sikh and have a monogamous same-sex relationship, as long as one ensures that the relationship does not become filled with ‘Kaam’ and one maintains a Sikh lifestyle in accordance with all of the various tenets of the religion. Although marriage is ideal, it may not be possible to get married due to the reluctance of gurdwaras, and so a monogamous relationship is to be preferred as an alternative.

Memories In March – A Review


2011
04.04

-Agnivo Niyogi

Another film starring Rituparno Ghosh. Another film scripted (and ghost directed?) by Ritu Da. The art of film making achieves more finesse with every film that Rituparno gifts us. With every offering, Ritu Da makes us sit back and ponder on some facets of life we happily ignore otherwise.

For people like me who stay away from home, when was the last time you talked to your Mom? When was the last time you asked the one you love, how (s)he is? Is there anything you wanted to share with someone close to you but held it back fearing adverse reactions? I believe we all live in a closet, an imaginary divide between us and the world. A world of our own where even our closest companions have no access.

Relationships dont have names. They cant be branded. Feelings define them, not names. Memories in march simply puts the message across. Our perceptions of civility, conservationism, morality fade out of the scene in the beautiful merging of emotions with life, realities with perceptions and our inherent biases are programmed for death.

Some films are made not to be watched but to be felt.  The pain of loss, the dilemma of acceptance, the turmoil of penance, the bonding of souls come to life with the haunting scores of Debojyoti Mishra. Tagore comes to life with “Eki Labonye Punyo Prano”, the bard’s influence is felt in the two brojbuli songs in the film.

People say Ritu da’s scripts are slow, boring. I never understand why they want moments to fly past when characters are trying to hold onto them. Time chooses to stand still when a mother enters the bedroom of her deceased son. Why should the frame not freeze?

Memories in March will make every mother emotional. It will make every son want to go and give his mother a tight hug and say, “I am there for you Mom”. I suddenly have this big urge to hug Maa and tell her I love someone and it’s a he. Who knows what happens even a minute later.

Memories in March with all humility reminds us that we live for moments. Memories make our life what it is. Love and only unselfish love can make us humane and conquer hearts beyond all hardships.

Having praised the film all along I could not find any justification for dubbing Sahana’s mother’s voice with Mithu Chakravorty. The scene where Ritu Da calls Deepti Naval melodramatic was instead a melodramatic one. And at times the editing seemed to kill the narrative. If these can be pardoned, the film like memories flow through your mind and are here to stay.

I would highly recommend the readers to live this experience. It can also be watched online for 2$ (www.dingora.comor www.databazaarmedia.com/roku). Watch it not because it talks of a relationship between two men, not because it is a film written by Rituparno Ghosh. Watch it because in the end, we exist because we live relationships.

My rating : 3.5/5 and must watch. (Agnivo Niyogi blogs at http://xpresso.in/)

[P.S. Like in the film, Raima Sen has an invisible presence in my review. She is as much part of the relationship between Sid and Ornob as Aarti is]

THE COMMUNITY UNITES – India’s Stonewall?


2011
02.24

TV9

I had just returned back from my alma- mater after my convocation when I turned my laptop on and saw the link of TV9’s video posted in one of the Facebook groups. A slow net connection only meant that I couldn’t view the video. Tired from the journey and still excited about the newly awarded degree, I posted my comments below the shared video and went to sleep. Till then, only a few comments had been posted beneath it. By the time I woke up the next morning (which was a bit late) there were various posts related to that topic, each with more than 50 comments or so. The Youtube video had been flagged by so many people that it had been removed by then, and the TV channel had been sent a legal notice by one of the support groups. All this, within less than 24 hours!

And no, it wasn’t just the Facebook group that saw some activity. The discussion had been taking place in all the forums that I knew… some that had been lying dormant for ages!! TV9, in the name of journalism (sensational journalism to be exact) tried to “expose” the gay subculture of Hyderabad city by doing a sting operation. In a TV report, each and every spoken word of which stinks of deep homophobia, the news channel “went undercover” and shot with hidden cameras the various parties being organized for members of the LGBT community in the city. It then showed on TV the profiles of various members of a popular dating site and its journalists even posed as users of the site and called up a few other unsuspecting users, asking them intimate questions, recording them, and then beaming them on Television, along with their names and other information. How can attending parties and having a profile in one of the dating sites be unlawful and criminal, especially after the 2nd July 2009 verdict of Delhi High Court decriminalizing homosexuality in India, is something only  TV9 can explain.

But what the incident certainly did was bring the whole community together under one roof to fight for their rights. That their life could so easily be infringed upon, with utter disregard to privacy, and that it could have been any one of “us” brought every one out from deep slumber. This time around, there weren’t activists protesting against such homophobia, instead, it was THE COMMUNITY standing up for its rights. The Youtube video couldn’t have been brought down within hours without “mass support”. Even the most dormant of forums wouldn’t have become alive again had the members not felt the urgency to “fight back” and create a movement, the kind of movement that the Middle East is experiencing because people are tired of living a suppressed life. The realization dawned on the community and just like the Egyptian revolution was a faceless revolution, this one also was a faceless revolution (if I may call it so). You couldn’t pin-point a person or a group who started it all, it were THE PEOPLE who did it. I can’t recall any incident in recent memory where the whole LGBT community would have come together in such a big way to mark their protest, anger and outrage. The pride parades may be seeing huge turnovers, but then, that is a well planned activity and is more about celebration of sexuality.  On the other hand, the spontaneity with which THE COMMUNITY responded to this incident to register their protest is what marks it out. It was the kind of spontaneity that had been shown by the protesters during the Stonewall Riots. It may be too early to call it the Indian equivalent of Stonewall Riot, but the response from the Indian gay community bears many a mark of that fateful night. Will this particular incident be a turning point in the LGBT movement in India? While that question may be hard to answer at this moment, it is beyond doubt that the community has been united like never before.

P.S. A Peaceful protest is being organised in Mumbai on 25th Feb at 7pm outside TV9′s office. You can get the details here